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Are you concerned about
your child having surgery?


child having surgery

Surgery can be scary even for an adult, imagine a child having surgery. As a Mom, I too was a little apprehensive with the idea of my 4 year old son undergoing a surgical procedure. The idea of not being able to protect him was very frightening to me. I could not even imagine how he was going to feel. This is why it is so important to prepare your child BEFORE surgery.

You want to have them comfortable, and more importantly aware of what is going to take place. It is not about details, it is about awareness. I decided to come up with a plan to help my son better understand what was about to happen. It worked amazing and I was so glad that I chose to face the issues.


Tips For Preparing Your Child Having Surgery:

  1. Start talking about the Hospital. Do this as soon as possible. You want to continue talking about surgery up until the day of. It's not a good idea to not tell them where they are going. Some parents think it is better to not say anything. WRONG! Children do better when they are prepared for the hospital and surgery.
  2. Talk about the Separation. My husband and I talked to my son about when he would be away from us that Jesus protects him and is with him. We explained that Mommy and Daddy would be there when he woke up.
  3. Feeling Better..YEAH! My son had to have his adenoids removed. They were blocking 80% of his airway. I talked to him about how he would breathe better, and sleep better. He was really excited to know that he was going to get better! Whatever the procedure is with your child, explain the benefits of the surgery and where they will be when it is over!
  4. Take a "Hospital Friend". Your child may already have a best friend. Stuffed animal or toy. We took our son to Build a Bear Workshop and allowed him to pick out a new "Hospital Friend". He decided on pajamas and slippers to go with his new friend. The great thing about it was that your child (in most hospitals) can take their friend in the surgery room with them. This was very beneficial. My son felt better knowing that his pal was right there with him!
  5. Childrens Hospitals are the best! I was so impressed with the hospital near us. They really are equipped and centered around children. A nurse prepared my son for the procedure as well. From stickers to receiving stuffed animals, it was an Amazing experience focused on children and toddler routines. They had a doggie brigade, where dogs visited the children prior to surgery. I was so blessed with the techniques. If possible, look into having the procedure done at a childrens hospital.


If you happen to be an over protective parent....LOL :0) such as myself. There was freedom at the end of the surgical procedure. My son can breath better and will have relief from continuous sinus infections and toddler allergies. I made it through my child having surgery, and survived! I pray that my son never visits surgery again. But, I will utilize these steps again and find comfort knowing there is light at the end of the tunnel.



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