My husband is in the military, and stationed away from home right now. My 19 month old and I are living with my parents to save money. I'm going on vacation at the end of the month (for a week) while my toddler stays with my parents. She's bonded with them and they're great with her, but we've been dealing with some separation anxiety lately. What are some ways we can make my absence easier on everyone?
Thanks! ~Nikki
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"Single" Mom On Vacation Without Toddler
Thanks for your question. First of all I think it is outstanding that you are taking a vacation alone. My son is older, but I too recently went on a 5 day vacation alone with my sister and although I did miss my family, I needed it...:0) I feel that it makes us better moms when we take some time to ourselves and relax so BRAVO!
I have a few suggestions about the separation anxiety issues. The first thing is to make sure she has all of her "favorite" items from home. Such as a blankie or a toy. Anything that will bring her comfort and remind her of home and you.
I would also keep in contact with her as often as you can. Skype or by web cam chat works extremely well because she will be able to see you and talk to you. Regular phone calls will be nice as well.
It really can be difficult to try and "prepare" a 19 month old for your leaving. BUT, you could have a calendar and mark the day that you will be returning. You can put stickers and bright colors to make it really visual. Have your parents show your daughter each day and cross it off. She may not understand fully BUT it still may brong her some comfort knowing that you will be coming home soon.
I wish you well, I speak Blessings and prayers of protection over you as you travel. Please let me know how it all went.